We want our kids to respect US – and we have to show that we also respect THEM. Make a point to tell your kids WHY you respect them. Ex: I really respect how (hard working, considerate, polite, persistent,etc.) you are! It reinforces that these behaviors/traits are important and that respect is a 2-way street.
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Do you have a “GO-TO” kid? That’s the one you “go to” when you want something done quickly and without a fuss. Every time you “go” to the “go-to” kid, it reinforces the perception to your other children that they are not as capable or self-sufficient. Be sure to give EVERYONE an opportunity to contribute…
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The line between being a supportive, engaged, sports-loving parent and applying too much pressure on kids is easily crossed. To avoid embarrassing your child and making him/her feel more pressure than he/she already feels about playing the game – we recommend these strategies: During the Game Avoid criticizing referees This teaches the child to have…
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Don’t forget your tweens and teens when dishing out the hugs. They need it too – especially your boys who may act like they are too old or too cool to hug mom and dad! (However, they would probably prefer you didn’t do it in front of their friends.)
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I was interviewed recently by Lisa Earle McLeod, syndicated columnist, author and speaker. The article is about making sure the responsibility for your children’s homework is where it belongs…on their backs. You can read the entire article here.
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A great question came up in our Free Webinar this week that I want to share. “Should we continue to REWARD positive behavior once they become expected behaviors?” I frequently hear this question from parents and it has a two-part answer. The first part of the answer is that I encourage you to STOP USING…
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